FOR STUDENTS OF ALL AGES
At Home:
- Ask about their homework – what it is, when it’s
due – and
check to make sure they do it.
- Provide a quiet place, with a good
light and away from distractions, for them to do homework.
- Make
sure they get a good night’s sleep each night and
eat a healthy, substantial breakfast each morning.
- Talk to them
about school for at least a few minutes each day to let them
know you’re interested and you think school
is important.
- Teach them respect for others and responsibility
for their own behavior.
- Make sure they get regular health and
dental check-ups.
- Limit children’s exposure to TV and
video games.
- Be positive about school. If parents say “I
wasn’t
good at school” or “I really didn’t like school,” this
can turn children away from learning.
- Check your children’s
school web sites regularly to keep informed.
At School:
- 1.Attend back-to-school nights and parent/teacher nights to
meet your children’s teachers.
- If you are concerned about
something, meet with your children’s
teachers promptly, before a minor issue becomes a major problem.
- If
possible, volunteer – regularly or even just occasionally – at
your children’s schools. You will get to know the school
better and show your children that you consider education very
important.
FOR ELEMENTARY SCHOOL STUDENTS
At Home:
- Read to your children or look at a book with them for at least
5-15 minutes each day.
- Have books and magazines appropriate for
your children’s
reading level available for them.
- Use routine household events
to teach about numbers and colors – shopping
for food, using a recipe, sorting laundry, etc.
- Give children
small rewards for success (either behavior or academic) at school.
- Praise
them when they get good grades or do their homework completely
and without complaint.
- Take your children to the special programs
for youngsters at your local public library.
- Make sure your child
has all necessary childhood immunizations.
At School:
- Join a parent-teacher organization (PTA or other parent group)
and attend meetings.
- Talk to the teachers to find out what
your children will be learning each year.
- Ask the teachers for
suggestions about how you can help your children at home.
- Make
arrangements to visit your children’s classrooms
at least once during school hours, just to observe. Talk to the
teacher
later about anything you didn’t understand or were concerned
about.
- Ask about after-school programs or extra-help sessions
if you think your children could benefit from these.
FOR MIDDLE- AND HIGH-SCHOOL STUDENTS
At Home:
- Continue to encourage your children to read. Don’t
let TV, video games, or friends absorb all their free time.
- Talk
to your children about their specific interests related to school – subjects
or teachers they like, clubs or extracurricular activities, books
they are reading, projects they are working
on, etc.
- Discuss their choice of courses with them so that they
are well prepared for different options after high school.
- Begin
discussing with them what they might like to do after they graduate
from high school.
- Know your children’s friends, where they
live, and, if possible, their parents.
- If your children work
part-time, make sure this doesn’t
interfere with schoolwork or getting a good night’s sleep
during the week.
- Continue to celebrate school successes with
appropriate rewards. Even though they may seem embarrassed, your
children will appreciate
your enthusiasm for their good work.
At School:
- Get a copy of your children’s schedules each semester.
- Find
out what guidance is available to your children in choosing a
college, applying, and finding scholarships and loans.
- Volunteer
for school activities – chaperone a school
dance or field trip, help with sports events, etc.
- Serve on
school committees that involve parents.
For more ideas and resources for parents, visit the National PTA
web site at www.pta.org. |